Positive Thinking: Fear / Try Not ~ DO!

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Try Not ~ Do! Look Not ~ Find!

So many times I have found this to be true and yesterday was once again the general topic of a conversation with yet another friend.

The conversation was focused around the times when we try so hard to make sure there is not a negative reaction to an action or words and the ultimate outcome is even worse than what we are trying to avoid.

When asked my opinion I suddenly felt like Yoda and all I could respond with was "Try Not - DO!" for I've experienced the very same thing so many times that I've finally learned that when *I* "TRY" things ARE going to get mucked up.

I'm not the kind who needs to take my quiet focused moments in prayer or meditation, my belief system has been in place for so long that I feel that I am constantly in touch with *MY* "Higher Power", which lives on through me, and as long as I keep 'myself' out of things My Higher Power keeps things on track, keeps me safe, and keeps me out of those uncomfortable situations I'm trying to avoid (which generally stem from 'fear', a healthy, but not always necessary tool and trait).

Relationship searching is no different ....

keep you out of it, in other words, stop thiking with the wrong head and stop looking for Mr. Perfect, even if you're only looking for Mr. Right Now!

All of my rewarding relationships have been those that happened when I was minding my own business and simply being myself - instead of the disasters that happened solely because I was thinking below my waist!

Since breaking two years of lonliness, isolation, sleepless nights, boredom, depression, and many suicidal thoughts I've not been "looking" and I suddenly find myself surrounded by a different quality of men, men who are taking genuine, sincere, and often passionate, interests in ME!

When I leave things in My Higher Power's control my needs ARE provided for me, often before I know I need them. SSDI continues to be a worse pain in my back than my diagnosis* and the attorney says we could be looking at another year or more in acheiving results - now suddenly I have a resonable potential for sustainable income in 2015 through work I CAN do AND be of service to someone else too!

I've been walking around in fear of my ultrasound and just what 35 years of living with Hep C was finally going to really mean - and here after all that worry I "turn it over" and "walk through the fear" and get one of the best reports I could ask for**!

So stop looking for all the answers and Mr. Right. TRY NOT - DO: Relax, Be Patient, and Learn to Find and Be Yourself First - Mr. Goodbar will find you, and have all the answers, when your time is right!



* SEVERE Multiple Level Deteriative Disk Disease with Arthritic Spurs and Bone Fragments effecting T4-7, L4, and C4-7.
** Liver: *Unremarkable*, average size, no signs of cirrhosis, portal shunt sounds good


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